The Politics of Blowjob

You'd think that getting your dick sucked is just a blow-job. Loving the cock with the mouth. A simple gift from someone, a turn-on and empty-sex-headed exploration. But giving head can be a more complicated interpersonal relationship between two people.

It's a give and take kind of arrangement, in which the power is not specifically or exclusively with the man with the erection. The presumption that the cock is being jammed into the woman's throat in a patriarchal assertion of dominance is mitigated by the fact that the woman is ministrating all the attention, loving skill upon said erection in order to get a response. It can seems at first as a denial for whoever's doing the sucking. She is withdrawing from having cock (or fingers, or a tongue) in her own pussy, to take charge of that cock. She's (or he's) in a kneeling submission to the phallic aggression of your needy and impatient fuckhead. Such that the mouth, the woman, is forced to suck me off? The dick is the center of attention again.

The desired response, ultimately and spectactularly, would be an orgasm of cum squirting out of the slick erection, jerking and heaving into her mouth or over her receptive face. But the nuance of the entire process needs to be considered as well.

Sucking cock isn't solely for the final cum squirt. The woman is owning and putting a valuable body part into her teethed hungry mouth. She has the ability to coax, stroke, change flow or speed to ruin the sensual experience. Indeed her skill and ministrations of oral love - or her lack thereof - gives her the power to render the cock completely submissive. The cock in thrall, enclaved to the urge to enjoy the slower and more urgent focused attention.

Of lick, of moaning, of deep swallowing satisfaction.

At the expense of her pussy, and without your more complete carnal enjoyment of her soft curves or wet sliding ass crease, the sucked penis waits, perhaps patiently, perhaps for far longer than is bearable, for any final explosive conclusion. That may not come. And so, the process is the raison d'etre. The sucking and licking, stroking and slobbering becomes a drawn out and nuanced performance by the mouth and of the hands, the mind and the lusty heart of the sucker. Who honors and prays to your altar of cock.

The mouth engulfs the rod of love and loves it in a selfless and focused exploration of flesh into hole, hard into wet. Without distraction or a mutual masturbatory exploration, the mouth becomes a master of touches, licks, timing and pacing. Hair, sweat and breathing, of precum.

It's a narrative in which the journey can be as enjoyable and longer and without end. The cock is justified and obligated to let it happen. To not rush in or to rush out. To submit to the chore of head given to you. To resist grabbing yourself and jerking yourself onto her when you're close. To receive head is to submit to her process. She sucks it because she loves to feel it and wants to swallow the essence of your submissive mancock, dripping and growing in orgasmic anticipation.

She's in charge. Your submission is the power she has over you as she drinks of the firm wet fleshy enjoyment of her own withdrawal to being fucked in the mouth, the face, the full-frontal drinking. Sex as performance, as consumptive surrender to the moment.