40

It happens around the time she's 40. The sexual peak that men have gone through throughout their teens.

After she's been married, maybe divorced, finally, after her child-bearing years are over, she feels it. A dark and insatiable need. A need to be fucked. To fuck everything that moves.

The men understand. Finally the hormonal need to procreate becomes insatiable and unstoppable. A decade of making babies, being touched, not wanting to have sex, turns into a hot and horny burn for cock.

If you're lucky the husband goes along. It's a matter of circumstances being right and she is willing to experiment and he is there to coax her along. To swing along with her. Would you kiss him? Would you lick her? The husbands think it's a dream come true. She finally loves sex. Even if it's not with you.

This different new mode is sexy and flirtatious and hot. It's novel and and it's also dangerous - she wants to fuck. Me or anyone. Can you keep up? If at the party you let her go ahead with the guy next door, open his pants, purely NSA, it's okay... but also transgressive. You're giving permission. But there's heat and there's damage.

To what cost do we allow it?

The driving need is primal and non-intellectual. Don't take it personally. But then how do you deal with it? Let it go as the urge that it is or wonder what it signifies? Give in and do it yourself or change up the routine to make things better, less open?

Reclaim what is barely yours? Pretend you can win back her loyalty? Or let what you no longer own - her pussy and her heart, his cock and all his sperm that ends up inside someone else - go?

Do you understand that the years were good but limited, that the commitment wasn't ... couldn't be forever? That now you are merely one of the people who she's allowing to let fuck her rather rather than the only one allowed to?

That you can go ahead too, letting that door in your head open, as if such a thing can ever satisfy your heart like it satisfies your hungry and mindless cock? Decide to fuck, be intimate, be naked, rather than loyal, alone, hurt, and patient?

It begins to happen around the time she's approaching 40. She suddenly realizes she is a sexual creature, not just built for procreation but wants pleasure, wants cock, and you are boring. Same. No matter what you do, it may not be enough.

Do you give her permission to explore and manifest her hidden potential? Do you take the opportunity to exploit her new-found sexuality and fuck the wife of the husband she's blowing to get a new slant on your open relationship?