I mean actually show you what to do, how to move, what it feels like, hey, that this will feel good so try it?
Didn't think so.
But there's a subset of porn out there where a woman, usually beautiful, sometimes naked, talks to the camera telling you how.
Jerk-off instructions. Here or here.
The payoff seems solely to be that she makes the movement with her hand by her crotch. You know that sexy pump movement. She talks down to you, "you jerkoff," "you can't help yourself can you?", etc. while stroking that invisible cock in front of her pussy - your cock in your dream. The cock you have and she'll never have and won't let you give her.
There's a humiliation component to it. She even jerks heself off sometimes, but never do you see her take you in her mouth - she's teasing you, showing you her own pussy and it's all a trick...
...and it's fucking hot.
How is this a thing? I usually want the woman to be into me as much as I'm into her. If you know what I mean. I don't want her to talk down to me or belittle me. Is there any better boner-killer?
I think it's just an excuse to have some woman talk dirty while making eye contact.
But this subset of porn does tap into the shame of jerking off. We all felt at one time - or maybe just were taught - it was horribly wrong. We might even have been told we were killing kittens and betraying god by putting hand onto cock.
To have a beautiful woman (or your sister, or mom!) go ahead and talk you through it, there's certain transgressive release in that. It's not the same as having her whisper in your ear "yes, more, fuck me" but at least in spite of her humiliating of my pitiful gooning - she's with the program.
She gets it. You can't help yourself. The simple truth is we're all addicted to jerking off. It feels too good to stop; you're in complete control, you decide how long or how big (or how delayed) your orgasm is, it's not cheating and there's a peaceful zen feeling of getting in touch with your own bad hard self.
Maybe it's a way to remind us - "you fucking jerk off!" - that it has its place. Don't you jerk off when you have no better option? I watch clips of girls masturbating more than anything else lately - maybe it's a feedback loop - masturbating to masturbating.
It's part educational ("oh, so that's how they do it"), part simple wank material, but also keeps my sexual antenna up.
It gets me horny. Fuels my sexual fantasies which run in my head day and night. Opens me up to possibilities. (No, not to banging impossible tattoo'd plastic babes on the deck; I mean, things like telling her to keep her socks on, or doing it with the window open. Turning her over this way. Licking along those bumps from the back instead whitewashing the fence.)
I'm not jerking off instead of living a normal healthy sexual relationship with my wife and loved ones. The porn, the minutes or hours I'm in a sexually excited state, so I can fuck her different.
Watching the various and sundry kinks I'm attracted to is exercise. Eat out more often (use it or lose it). It kindles my desires and I fairly attack my wife as soon as the kids are in bed.
I don't need some internet bitch to tell me how to jerk off. The construction of these clips ultimately shame you, maybe make you feel better about cumming on yourself and keep you watching their damned clips.
The girls in these instruction videos say they're disgusted by my wanking?
I think she's using that as an excuse to show me her pussy.
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See also: Step mommy's hairy bush jerk-off instruction
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